I have two 15 yr old boys who are not wanting to participate in the court ordered visitation schedule. Partly because of the relationship with their mother but also because they are in sports and have obligations here. They have expressed this to their mother and she is threatening me with court if i do not put them on their flights. Do i really need to wrestle these boys onto a plane? I've even offered to buy the tickets she's already paid for so she's not out that money. What can i do?